Kink/BDSM

Interests and

Offerings

NYC-Based Domina

Note: All BDSM opportunities require screening, a kink questionnaire, and deposit to secure your spot. Be prepared to furnish government-issued ID or acceptable forms of identification. More information on my contact page.

You may call me Domina. I am a New York City-based professional dominatrix whose domination style is best described as sensual, playful, strict, and diabolical. I am particularly drawn to sessions that involve bondage, sensory overload, and psychosexual play (manipulation, interrogation, and playful humiliation). I regularly work out of dungeon spaces located in Lower Manhattan and Brooklyn. I do not consider outcalls for first-time clients unless for a FemDom Companionship opportunity.

Considerations

BDSM appointments should push your limits—albeit in a mutually agreed upon container of our choosing for our respective safety. Do you even know what the edge of your fears and desires is? Let’s find out and see who you really are on the other side of your fear. Please note an additional $200 incall fee on top of inclusive tribute rates below for use of my dungeon or if I need to book a hotel.

The Classic Appointment
Recommended for bespoke domination experiences.
1 Hour | 700
90 Mins. | 1000
2 Hours | 1200
3 Hours | 1800

Dinner and Domination
For those savoring an evening out to serve me and be at my beck and call, locked or not. Obviously, all meals and drinks are on you.
4 Hours | 2000
5 Hours | 2500
6 Hours | 3000

Date Night or Day
I savor longer experiences that build with time, rather than something that is rushed. As a classically trained musician, I am particularly drawn to symphonies, operas, and love the intimacy of a jazz club. I also love a deep body pampering at a private spa, followed by a decadent meal, before consuming each other.
Up to 12 Hours | 4500

Overnight
All the intimacy that comes with a date night, just longer and with Mya for breakfast.
16 Hours | 6000

Full Day
24 Hours | 7000
Each Additional Day | 7000

In-Date Extension | 700 per hour when available

Interests & Delights

As a Dominant, I relish in sensual restraint activities in my scenes, but I am not limited to that approach. In D/s dynamics, what’s more significant is for us both to understand how do you want to feel? The categories of delights listed below are mainly for organization. I often orchestrate unique combinations of these interests to create bespoke experiences for my select clientele. The goal, after all, is to reach states of being not often offered in our day to day lives.

  • Ballbusting and CBT

    Breast Slapping and Rough Breast Play

    Face slapping

    Impact Play: OTK Spanking, Flogging, Engish Caning, Paddles, Single-Tail

    Nipple Torture

  • CEI

    Cuckolding

    Feminization, Bimbo Training, Dollification

    High Protocol

    Human Furniture

    Puppy/Pet Play

    Slut Training (Strap-on Oral Training)

    Sacrificial Role Play

    Watersports: Ruby, Golden Showers, Golden Guantanamos, Spit Play

  • Blasphemy, Sacrilege, Religious Roleplay

    Bondage and Restraint: Shibari (not offering suspensions), Mummification, Chains

    Breathplay: Gags, Smothering Queening (Clothed)

    Chastity Training

    Erotic Hypnosis

    Fear Play and Mindfuckery

    Forced Bi

    Verbal Humiliation and Degradation

  • Armpits and Leg Worship

    All Things Feet: Foot Washing, Feet Massges Toe-Sucking/Foot Throating

    Boot, Socks, Stockings, Sneaker Worship

    Latex ShIning

    Nylon and Lace Worship

    Scent Play: Sweat, Body Odor

    Sensory Play and Deprivation

    Edging, Tease and Denial, Ruined Orgasms

  • Forced Queening*

    Edging and Denial*

    D/s Outings

    Errands & Shopping Trips

    Filming Submissive

    Financial Domination

    Kink Event Submissive

    *=For FemDom Companionship Only

Experiential Offerings

  • The Film Partner

    Are you ready for your close up? This offering allows you to be part of my documented library of fetish content as it continues to grow.

    Must be willing to furnish ID, sign model release forms, cover location costs and pay initial tribute.

    Begins at $200/hr., 2 hour minimum.

  • The Learning Domme

    I take my training and education seriously and would never attempt a new skill without supervised practice. On occasion, I will need the right subject on whom I can practice new skills, now offered at a discounted tribute. Will you be my test bottom?

    Skills I’d love to practice: electroplay, sounding, enemas, and other medfet play.

    Minimum $250 tribute per hour for my time.

  • The Cash Meet*

    In a world where capitalism organizes the structure of our day, nothing is more intimate than to surrender your paycheck to appropriately worship me. It is, after all, your pleasure to make my life easier.

    Begins at $500.

    *Can be paired with The Classic Appointment, The Social Outing, and/or The Film Partner.

  • The Social Outing*

    This offering provides intimacy in a social setting without any formal domination. Let’s get to know each other over an evening at the Lincoln Center or treated to a shopping spree where can bat my eyelashes at you and charm you with my sharp wit.

    Begins at $250/hr., 2 hour minimum.

    *Can be paired with The Classic Appointment, The Cash Meet, The Film Partner, and/or The Learning Domme.

What is BDSM protocol?

Protocol in this field indicates a series of rules, rituals, and behavioral expectations that enforce the dynamic between a Dominant and their submissive for professional and lifestyle trysts. Examples include when to eat, how to walk with, and how one refers to their Dominant.

Read on to learn more about what my expectations are of any submissive who wishes to serve me.

  • All new clients are required to provide ID verification. My vetting process is quick, discrete, and non-negotiable. It is necessary for my safety.

    Please provide the following:

    Option 1: Verify with government-issued ID. Please send two photos: 1) clear photo of your government-issued ID or driver’s license to My secure, encrypted email; 2) a photo of you holding your ID next to your face. Your name and age must be visible. You may censor the DL or passport number and address for your privacy.

    Option 2: Verify via LinkedIn page or company-verified employment page.

    Please note that while references are nice to have, they are insufficient for screening. Your cooperation is appreciated.

  • I require 25% of your total tribute to finalize your appointment. I offer discrete payment methods and accept electronic payments, bitcoin, and cash.

    Please note that your book is not considered confirmed until I receive your deposit.

    • You will call Me by the honorifics Domina, Goddess, or Maîtresse—not Mistress or any other honorific you may use with another Domina. This will look like, “Yes, Domina” or “Yes, Maîtresse.” In public, you will call Me Mya. Use of the incorrect honorific will result in punishment.

    • You will respond to anything I ask of you by saying, “Yes/No, Domina” or “Yes/No Maîtresse.” Do not respond casually with “Yeah” or “okay.”

    • You will be respectful, obedient and eager to serve at all times.

    • You will arrive on-time—not late, not early, but exactly at your appointed time. If you are early, you must wait. There is a 5 minute grace period. Any minute later is an additional $100 charge, no exceptions. Respect My time as I respect yours.

  • Along with everything listed under Submissive Expectations:

    • You are expected to come to session freshly bathed and with fresh breath. I should not smell coffee or food on your breath. Most incall spaces have mouthwash readily available in bathrooms. I highly expect you to have your ass washed before session, especially if there is any play in that area. If not, I will make you clean yourself and it will count as part of your session.

    • I expect you to arrive on time—not early or late. Time starts the moment we begin playing, once you disrobe. Check-in conversation beforehand does not count toward your time.

    • You will provide the balance of your tribute in large bills in an envelope. I require the last $100 to come in $20 bills. If your tribute is inaccurate, I will stop the session.

    • I will allot time for aftercare to ensure you can go back out in public. When our time is up, you must quickly gather your things and leave promptly.

    • While rare, session extensions are available with an additional hourly charge.

    • You may respectfully inquire about purchasing pantyhose or underwear during session if you feel so inclined.

Non-Negotiables

Violations of any of the below will result in immediate blacklist and loss of access to me.

  • Hard Limits: I do not offer scat play. I only work with those who can furnish verifiable identification indicating that they are 21 years of age or older. For BDSM-only offerings, I will not be nude and I do not switch or sub.

  • Substance Use: I do not play under the influence nor do I want to play with those who are under the influence. I do not tolerate any heightened drug or alcohol use in my sessions. Please come sober or I will cancel the session without refund.

  • Cancellation Policy: Cancellations happen! While deposits are non-refundable, cancellations made with 48+ hours advanced notice, your deposit may be applied one-time to a rescheduled session following the next 30 days. Cancellations made with less than 48 hour notice, you must furnish 100% of the total tribute before you can book again with me. If you cancel a second time for our rescheduled appointment, you must furnish 100% of the total tribute before I see you again.

  • No Call/No Show: My time is highly valuable and not showing up for our scheduled appointment time will result in an immediate loss of access to me. You will be required to pay full tribute before you can book again with me.